I have to say that it really looks great when it arrives - it looks a lot like a picture and may be better than expected. But there may be some embarrassment - as some others have found, her limbs are somewhat stiff. But I can live with these things. I will tell you the truth, I have been sick for a week, out of another town, so most of the time I wear her, either lying down or sitting on the bed (on the headboard), there is a prop in the room because I have her. This sex doll brings me a time worth remembering.