To be honest, it was difficult to use from the beginning, because I have been very soft. I am under 20 years old, so this should not be a problem. But as time went by, I was used to these holes, and now I can use it easily. If I need another, I will buy it again from this seller! After purchase, follow up after receiving the item and make sure you are satisfied after a few days. Unlike any other sex doll company.